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| Volume 3 Issue 4 |
April 2009
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Hello, Several years ago I lived in a modest little cottage on Lake Harding on the Alabama side. One whole wall of my living room consisted of windows overlooking the lake. One of the great things about living alone was having the time to think and reflect and the opportunity to write at will. But for a month or more, I had a dry spell. I simply could not write. One Saturday morning as I puttered around the house, a thought kept running through my mind - "Be still and know that I am God." I ignored it for a while, but I kept receiving the message to "be still." Finally, I grabbed a notepad and pen and went to the dock. I had no intention of writing, just determined to be still, let my thoughts flow as they would. It was wonderfully quiet, the water gently lapping the bank. As I sat there, I became aware of the early morning sounds of fish jumping and birds chirping. Just the act of being quiet - of just being - brought such wonderful peace. I was "present in the moment." After a while, I grabbed my pen and pad and started writing about the reflection of the trees in the water and how sometimes in life looking through our own lens we see only the distorted reflection, not the clear, crisp reality. And how sometimes we see only stark reality but totally miss the beauty of the reflection. This month's Journey is about silence. We all need to find the time to "be still." Til next month, Delane Chappell |
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We live in a noisy world. From the alarm clock to the ringing of cell phones. From the banging of pots and pans to lunching in crowded sports grills with blaring televisions. From the horn of the train to the sounds of passing traffic. From the cry of the baby to the barking of the dog. From jet skies to motorcycles. Everywhere we go we are bombarded by sound.
When you add lawn mowers, leaf blowers, jack hammers, jet engines, dentist drills and construction equipment, you have noise overload. Even when you're watching television at a reasonable volume, commercials come on that nearly blow you out of your chair (that's intentional, by the way). It seems that we have reached a cultural acceptance of living in a noisy world. But what is noise doing to us? It may be making us physically and psychologically ill, according to some studies, including some done by the U.S. Department of Transportation. The World Health Organization has declared noise a human health issue that adversely affects the lives of millions of people throughout the world. People continuously exposed to noise experience elevated stress levels, mood swings, hypertension, depression, lost sleep and decreased productivity. In children, it can result in slowed learning and inability to concentrate, according to studies at Cornell University. Cornell conducted a study to ascertain the impact of noise on employees in an open office area where they were constantly exposed to fax machines, telephones, office chatter, shredding machines and more. The study revealed that workers in this area had high levels of adrenaline in their urine. Adrenaline is a hormone that stimulates the heart rate and dilates blood vessels and air passages in preparation for a "fight or flight" situation. Other workers in quiet, self-contained office spaces did not have the elevated levels of adrenaline and were much more relaxed and less stressed.
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Physiological impact of noise |
Psychological impact of noise |
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Loss of hearing |
Annoyance |
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Vegetative dysfunction |
Stress, nervousness, tenseness |
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Cardiovascular problems |
Despondency |
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Increased blood pressure |
Disturbance to communication |
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Reduced depth of sleep |
Loss of performance |
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Headaches |
Psychosomatic symptoms |
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Psychological impact of noise |
Economic impact of noise |
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Hindrance to communication |
Increased rent and price of real estate |
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Negative judgment of other people |
Cost of noise protection |
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Reduced willingness to help |
Increased health costs |
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Aggression |
Loss of production |
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Social segregation (noise ghettos) |
Development planning costs | Noise seems to affect focus, productivity and general physical and psychological well being. It increases stress levels which in turn results in increased frustration, anger and strained relationships. For some people, noise has become an addiction where they have to leave the television or radio on all day and all night. Although we have little control over noise in the general environment, we can control the noise in our private environment.
- Make a conscious effort to experience silence. Appreciate the quiet. You may feel uncomfortable with it at first, but gradually you'll seek it.
- Go for a walk in nature. The silence soothes your spirit.
- When you are home alone, turn off all the noise making appliances. Try it for 15 minutes. Then, work up to 30 minutes.
- When driving to work, turn off the radio.
- Go camping by yourself at a quiet campground.
- Drive to a lake at sunset and paddle a canoe along the shoreline and listen to the gentle sounds of natures as the sun sets.
- In a quiet moment, listen to the sound of your breathing. Pay attention to the rhythm.
- Read a book in silence - no television background noise.
- Before you go to bed at night, go outside and look at the night sky.
Silence is a balm to the weary soul. It refreshes us. Allows our minds to wander and wonder. It is in silence that we can think and feel more deeply. In silence, we can pause and reflect or go deeper, to what Alfred Lord Tennyson described as "the dissolving of the limits of selfhood until the infinite alone seems real." |
| COUNSELOR PROFILE |
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Judith Hardy, MS
On the National Day of Prayer in 1993, I was involved in a tragic car accident in which my husband of 28-years and two friends were killed. After weeks in intensive care, I awakened to the news of my husband's death and discovered that his funeral took place without my presence. In the months that followed, my hospital bed became a prison for my broken body, mind and soul. In the early days of my recovery, I feared the silence because it forced me to think about my past... my present... and my future... My past was filled with the promises of God to keep me and my family safe and secure. My present was a reminder that for some reason God had not kept His promise. My future was too confusing and frightening to even contemplate. So, I did everything I could to avoid the emptiness and darkness of the silence. One night as I struggled to reach the light switch just inches above my head, evil thoughts flooded my mind..."Your God doesn't love you... Look what's happened to you... Everything you have worked for is gone." My body squirmed to desperately escape the dark silence, but I was trapped. Unable to reach the light... I cried out to God... "What else could I have done?... What else could I have given you?... What else do you want?"... In the silence, I heard God's voice..."I want you, Judy...I want you." During recovery, I began to embrace the silence because the noise of the world was deafening, and I could not hear God any longer. What did God mean..."I want you, Judy?" As I learned to value the silence, God spoke direction...guidance and eventually... healing and peace.
About 18 months after the accident, I had recovered enough to take God by the hand as He led me into my future. He was calling me into pastoral counseling. Judith joined the Pastoral Institute staff in 2000. She holds a masters degree in counseling and psychology with a specialty in Clinical Mental Health. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor and is certified by the National Board of Certified Counselors. She is certified by the Georgia Family Initiative to work with couples and families. She is also trained in Life Coaching. Her counseling involves working with individuals, couples, adolescents, and children. Her passion is to offer hope and support to others as they learn to embrace the silence on their journey toward emotional, relational and spiritual wholeness. | |
| Journey is a monthly publication of the Business Resource Center of the Pastoral Institute. It is our hope that you will find something in its pages that will help you on your life's journey. The Employee Assistance Program provided by your business or organization makes counseling services available for you and your family. To make an appointment in Columbus, call 706-649-6500; in Lanett, AL call 334-768-2341; other locations, call 800-649-6446 for a referral in your area. Counseling is confidential. | |
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